Huh?

My father died, but I didn't know about it until my friend JT offered to sing at his funeral. (JT is not a singer...) For the whole dream my main worry was how to tell her not to without hurting her feelings, rather than being upset about my father dying.
Oh, and I kept dreaming parts of this story I've been trying to write, and in my dream I was writing everything down, but when I woke up all of the paper was still blank because I had just dreamed it! It was really frustrating, and I couldn't get it right once I had actually woken up.